How Much Time Do You Invest in Relationship Maintenance?
When starting a new relationship, we usually adopt a subconscious idea as to how much maintenance this connection will need. Usually, if given some thought, we can throw a microscope over this concept while it is in its fledgling state.However, time, no matter how you cut it, is a commodity... Read More
You are Killing US with YOUR Jealousy
Hey all, I feel that need to reach out and touch someone. So here I am again.So far I have enlightened the world with my thoughts on jealousy and self-esteem. I want to clear up any misunderstandings that may have some male people thinking that I am targeting only women... Read More
Trust Starts with You
"I have a hard time trusting people.""I never feel like I can trust my husband (or wife)."It is very common for me, in my work as a counselor, to hear the above statements. Trust issues abound in relationships. However, resolving trust issues is not about getting another person to be... Read More
He Still Hasnt Popped the Question - Should You Give Him an Ultimatum?
You've been dating the man forever, and he has yet to cough up a ring. You spend every single weekend with him. You endure his flatulent buddies from college. You put up with his lunatic mother. You alternate spending holidays with his family and yours, spending handsome sums on gifts... Read More
Mindfulness and Flirting: Seizing The Moment
Have you ever been called a flirt?Good for you!You see, flirting is an excellent indication that you are Paying Attention.In fact, it is impossible to flirt without being mindful. You can't be all wrapped up in your thoughts, or distracted by worries about tomorrow. You are Right There, in the... Read More
How to Increase Romance with Humor
Ask any single adult what qualities he or she wants in a spouse or partner, and one of the first answers is always "a sense of humor." Yet relationships and most marriages easily lose the early excitement after living together for several years.Healthy relationships require laughter. Sex is better; everything... Read More
How Do I Get Him or Her To Talk To Me?!!!
This is a common concern in our society for single people of any age; how to make contact with someone that we like on a soft matter without being forward. The truth of the matter is that we have the opportunity to meet that special person everyday; at the bus... Read More
The Revenge Affair: Characteristics of the Adulterer
"I Want to Get Back at Him/Her" is one of 6 kinds of affairs I outline in my E-book.This is the "revenge affair." It occurs in a marriage in which one feels slighted in some manner and seeks revenge by engaging in an affair.It is less a movement toward the... Read More
Relationship Advice: 9 More Must-Know Tips for Couples
The Law of Two QuestionsThere are two questions that couples must ask and answer:1) What do I want?2) How do I help you get what you want?The Law of Conflict, Part 1Much conflict is the result of failing to ask both of the above questions and/or an overemphasis on either... Read More
The Ancient Wisdom of Matchmaking & Loving Y.O.U.
"Know Thyself" PlatoIsn't it curious how just about everything in this material world comes with an operating manual; one specifically addressing the care and maintenance of its make, model and style? I don't care if it's a computer, a car, a refrigerator or a package of flower seeds, we always... Read More
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Girl Talk - Boy Talk
Chas and Dave wrote a song about it and how... Read More
The Egoistic Friend
What are friends for and how can a friendship be... Read More
Secrets Your Husband/Significant Other Dont Want You to Know
1. He Only Pretends Not to Listen.He heard what you... Read More
Men Love Women Who Initiate Sex ? 4 Fun Ways to Do It
This is a sizzling hot topic for a lot of... Read More
An Introduction to Relationships
"Love makes the world go around" was true when it... Read More
Can We Still Be Friends?
Excerpt From The Relationship Handbook: How to Understand and Improve... Read More
Put Some Z.I.P. Into Your Relationships
Relationships are really what makes the world go 'round, aren't... Read More
Feel Like a (Romantic) Kid Again
If the start of the school year makes you a... Read More
How to Communicate Constructively
Destructive communication erodes self-esteem and harms relationships. Such communication patterns... Read More
The Key to Ending Pain With Others
It has taken me 40 years to learn exactly how... Read More
Should I Stay Or Should I Go?
It's one of the ways you can spot a woman... Read More
A Dream of the Perfect Partner
Your dream is so beautiful and it is never to... Read More
Relationships that Work: How to Get Along with People Who Drive You Crazy
Question: What % of your bad moods at work are... Read More
Creative Visualizations for Love
To manifest love through creative visualization, you first need to... Read More
Very Old Secret To Melt The Heart Of Your Beloved
My Dear Lover,Communication is one of the key ingredients for... Read More
Friendship - A Relation of Choice!
IntroductionHave you ever heard or have you ever seen, father-son;... Read More
Improve Your Love Luck with Feng Shui!
Are you tired of looking for love without success? If... Read More
27 Characteristics of Loving Men
Every woman dreams of meeting that special man that knows... Read More
Playing the Part
A revelation came to me at the most unsuspecting time.... Read More
Am I Doing the Right Thing?
Dear Candace,My fiancé and I just broke up, and I... Read More
Buying A Diamond For Your Special Person?
The first thing you want to consider when buying a... Read More
The Informal Normal In a Black-Tie-Affair World
Have you noticed the trend?You ever notice how on programs... Read More
What Does a Dangerous Man Look Like?
When you are dating you try to keep from a... Read More
Shattered Visions
Sometimes it takes a girlfriend in order to have a... Read More
Getting Out... Together
So many things in society today try to urge us... Read More
Relationship Reality: Are Your Relationships Based In Reality or Fantasy?
Within the next two to three minutes, you will uncover... Read More
But Its Just the Guys -- The Importance of Sacrifice in Relationships
If it's a long-term relationship you want, you absolutely must... Read More
Lobster - The Food Of Romantics
Summer has arrived! Woo-Hoo! Do you know what always comes... Read More
Ladies, Is Your Valentine The Cheating Kind?
According to statistics, 50% to 70% of men cheat on... Read More
Real Solutions For Combatting Extreme Shyness
Most people experience some degree of shyness from time to... Read More
How to Survive an Affair - Take Care!
Surviving an affair can be a very traumatic experience. Partners... Read More
Extended Family Relationships: Staying Friends with Former Lovers and Spouses
Excerpt From The Relationship Handbook: How to Understand and Improve... Read More
Are You Relationship Ready?
So, you want to fall in love? You are certainly... Read More
Successful on the Outside, Lonely on the Inside: Our Hidden Epidemic
I say "Loneliness. Isolation. Invisibility."You ask "Eleanor Rigby?" I say... Read More
Boston Lawyers, DC Lawyers and Individual Rights
Looks like everyone wants to sue someone right? Well, I... Read More
Love is not Something you Say, Its Something you Do
Many have problems with communication and using that "love" word.... Read More
How Compatible Are You and Your Partner?
What are the things you argue about? Where are the... Read More
The 100 Laws
In any group of abused women there's almost always at... Read More
Being A Friend Through A Divorce
We used to joke amongst the couples we are close... Read More
Five Tips for Breaking Free of The Drama Habit and Developing a Healthier Arguing Style
We all feel angry from time to time, but feeling... Read More
How A Phony Persona Always Hurts You
'Be yourself', isn't that what you've always heard? It certainly... Read More
Making New Friends
How do we make friends? More importantly if dropped into... Read More
Youve Been Dumped - Heres How to Get Over It
Weve all been there. Weve fallen in love with somebody... Read More
Rediscovering Love and Intimacy
Wendy started counseling with me because Terence, her husband of... Read More
Recognizing Unhealthy Relationships
One of the keys to obtaining a better life or... Read More
Thinking Lingerie on Super Sunday?
February will bring with it one of the most important... Read More
Should I Give Up Me To Not Lose You?
How far can you afford to bend your values to... Read More
To Cheat or Not To Cheat
You know I am getting fed up with people who... Read More
How Can I Get My Partner To Change?
How much energy do you spend trying to get what... Read More
Breaking Your Relationship Pattern, Part 4
Finally, after all of the hard work you have done... Read More
The Narcissist and His Family
We are all members of a few families in our... Read More
Relationship Failing? Consider Your Ways
WhenWe all need to consider our ways. So many times... Read More
Relationship Red Flags Do Appear Early On
So often in the bloom of a new romance we... Read More
What You Should Know About Domestic Abuse
What is domestic abuse?There are many forms of domestic abuse,... Read More
Great Relationships - 3 Things to Avoid, 3 Things to Do
"Almost no one is foolish enough to imagine that he... Read More
The Five Second Flirt Technique
The first thing you want to do is to get... Read More
Understanding Your Teen Relationship
Teen relationships are touchy things. Girls are often ready for... Read More
Romantic Relationships: An Internal Process
If you grew up in the 80s like I did,... Read More
Defining Relationship Commitment for Todays Couples
WHAT IS COMMITMENT?The question of when a relationship is committed... Read More
Tips For Proper Kissing Etiquette!
Many cultures have customary kissing etiquettes. The French for instance... Read More
Nip Verbal Abuse in the Bud
So often in a new relationship we learn the dynamic... Read More
Can Men And Women Be Friends? Or When Harry Met Sally Did He Really Just Want to Jump Her Bones?
Men and women can't really be just friends, can they?... Read More
10 Things Never to Say to A Guy
1. WHEN WILL I SEE YOU AGAIN? You'll see him... Read More
Here Come the Questions
Why is it that even though I am not positive... Read More
Soul Mate Myths
But the cold truth is that most people have never... Read More
How to Create a Solid Foundation for Loving Relationships
What does real love look like? The way we act... Read More
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