Men Love Women Who Initiate Sex ? 4 Fun Ways to Do It

This is a sizzling hot topic for a lot of women ? How to initiate sex. If you are having a lot of trouble in this area, do not despair. You are not the only one. Most women typically wait for the man to take the lead. These days, men are excited about the prospect of their babe initiating sex. I am not talking about jumping your man's bones the minute you set eyes on him, but creatively letting him know that you want him between the sheets. Here are some tips you can use to get him to give up the goods:

Wear short lingerie with no underwear. Take your shower and put on the shortest lingerie you have - the kind that shows your butt when you bend over. Spray on your sweetest perfume, light some candles around the living room and bedroom, play your favorite slow jams or jazz. Pour a glass of wine, share a deep French kiss, and let him do the rest. He is bound to find out that you have no underwear. Believe me, that says it all. You don't have to do much after that.

Join him in the shower ? When he goes into the shower, give him a few minutes' head start. Take your clothes off and join him. He will be pleasantly surprised. Soap him up and let him do the same for you. Plant a wet kiss on him, and you are bound to arouse parts of his anatomy. When that happens, he will take the lead in heating things up. Watch out so that you don't burn yourselves with the heat you will generate.

Wake him up with a shower of kisses - Sex is very pleasurable in the wee hours of the morning. Wake him up by kissing him on his face, neck, ear lobes, chest, stomach, navel, and you know where. Be sure you are doing it with just your underwear on. Kiss on him while you are rubbing against him. Men get that kind of message loud and clear.

Give him a sexy massage ? "What is a sexy massage?" you ask. Well, a sexy massage is one where you massage your beau wearing just the skimpiest underwear you have, and your guy also wearing just his underwear. Get the massage oil or lotion, if massage oil is not handy. Start your massage by kissing him all over his back starting from the nape of his heck to the top down to his buttocks and all the way to his calves. Once you've done that you can start with the massage lotion or oil. Give him a thorough rubdown, and turn him over, if he is still awake. Straddle him, kiss his neck and chest, and give him your best French kiss. You will both be on your way to seventh heaven.

It is important to note that you cannot have a passionate love life if your man is not in love with you. Find out how to make your man derive joy from fulfilling your physical and romantic desires by visiting: http://www.smartwomansguide.com.

Steve Ubah is the author of Passion Keys ? A Woman's Ultimate Guide To Unlocking The Love In A Man's Heart. To find out how you can make your man fall madly in love with you, please visit http://www.smartwomansguide.com

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