Please note that this is not an attempt to give you a comprehensive list of the thoughts of all men, but rather my attempt to lead you into the crevice of the minds of most men. There are certainly men that do not think of most of the things here - those yet to be born. Also, remember that what a man thinks of is also a function of his age, status, profession, sexual orientation, etc. But even when all these variables are taken into consideration, you will find out that most men basically think of mostly the following things;
·Sex ? How to get it. When to get it. With whom to get it on with. This may not surprise some of you, but in case you did not know, at the back of every man's mind is this overpowering thought of how to get "some." It certainly does not mean that men constantly think this, even when they are having serious discussions about affairs of the day or business, or even at funerals. Of course not. But in the absence of serious thoughts that occupy the mind, men flood their minds with sex.
·Money ? How to make it by working less hours. How to make it grow. How to save it. And how to use it to take care of their families.
·Cars ? Most men love their cars. If there is a way for them to find the best cars at the cheapest prices, they will have a parking lot in the back of their house.
·Sports ? Playing. Watching. Talking about. Betting on.
·Their significant other ? How to love her. How to make love to her (that sex thing again). How to gain her trust and respect. How to please her.
·Kids ? How to raise them. How not to spoil them too much. How to protect them, and how to gain their respect.
·Parents ? How to make sure they live a long life, so they can witness their success. How to pay them back. How to give them a good time before God calls their number.
·Politics ? What is wrong and right about the country and the world. And the right person, Party or group to bring about positive change.
·Bills - How to pay them. When to pay them. How to eliminate them. And how to run away from them.
·The J.O.B. ? How to get away from being "Just Over Broke" and get out of the rat race. How to get respect and recognition. How to not to kiss the boss's you know what. How to survive amidst the office politics. How to move ahead or move on to a better paying one.
·Aging ? Will "it" still work as well as it is working now? If I have to explain what "it" means, then you are not mature enough to read this article. Hint ? It has to do with one of the three-letter words in this article that does not start with the letter "J."
To go beyond the thoughts that men think men think about and get right into their heart and uncover what makes them fall in love, please visit http://www.smartwomansguide.com.
Steve Ubah is the author of Passion Keys ? A Woman's Ultimate Guide To Unlocking The Love In A Man's Heart. To find out how you can make your man fall madly in love with you, please visit http://www.smartwomansguide.com
A note to all publishers: Feel free to reprint this article in its entirety in your ezine, newsletter or website as long as the article's content is not modified and all links as well as the author's resource box are included.
One thing to keep in mind when seeking relationship advice... Read More
The first step in using feng shui to attract a... Read More
You know I am getting fed up with people who... Read More
There is an old expression, which may sound trite, but... Read More
Among Dan Brown's many accomplishments is bringing the cilice belt... Read More
All relationships have some adjustment periods, but being hurt shouldn't... Read More
Sometimes the people who are the closest to us, our... Read More
SOMETIMES I'LL ask a couple I'm seeing in therapy to... Read More
We live in the world of the relative. What and... Read More
Many people, maybe even you, think there is only one... Read More
A quarter of thirtysomething couples are unhappy in their relationships,... Read More
Breaking up.The End. The journey is over. You feel rejected.... Read More
1. He Only Pretends Not to Listen.He heard what you... Read More
One of the most underrated concepts that most people overlook... Read More
There's something about America, our history, our values or maybe... Read More
Remember that big hug she gave you when you got... Read More
What do women or men want out of a relationship?... Read More
Let me address this issue of eternity, this promise many... Read More
I have been counseling couples for 35 years. Quite often... Read More
Once, when asked about her life, former First Lady Barbara... Read More
Families are made up of individuals; men, women, and children.... Read More
Dear Candace,My fiancé and I just broke up, and I... Read More
Are you dreading the holidays because you are single? For... Read More
A relationship requires intimacy. I don't think anyone would argue... Read More
We don't like to say it and we don't always... Read More
Having a girlfriend can be a dangerous thing. We become... Read More
Remember When?When you were in elementary school, high school, and... Read More
Is your man the cheating type? Here are some clues... Read More
The interesting thing about getting the love you deserve is... Read More
The word infidelity brings with it fear to every woman... Read More
It's all about relationships! proclaimed my father during our recent... Read More
Jealousy, unfortunately it seems to pop up sometime in even... Read More
Many cultures have customary kissing etiquettes. The French for instance... Read More
Before the advent of the internet, long-distance relationships were rare.... Read More
At one time, I would have never wanted to share... Read More
Whether you are single or married, we all need luck... Read More
One of the very worst mistakes a man can make... Read More
How does one talk his/her spouse into living the Swinging... Read More
Many guys are just too intimidated and full of anxiety... Read More
The dictionary defines infidelity as "unfaithfulness to a sexual partner".... Read More
Do you agree that the best lessons are lessons given... Read More
We are meant to live a life of love. However,... Read More
I'm experiencing some challenges in my relationship with Candice Bergen.I... Read More
Leaving an abusive relationship is difficult, but being alone can... Read More
There are few desires (if any) stronger than the deep... Read More
When you're searching for your Mr. Right, I want you... Read More
How many time have you felt an instant attraction to... Read More
Trust is something that is important to every single relationship... Read More
"If he comes we welcome, If he goes we do... Read More
We live in the world of the relative. What and... Read More
If you have the uneasy feeling that your husband is... Read More
It is no secret that African culture is known for... Read More
This is a sizzling hot topic for a lot of... Read More
I have been counseling couples for 35 years. Quite often... Read More
There comes a point in every relationship when the person... Read More
Does the thought of writing a love letter or poem... Read More
I came from good people. I didn't always know that.You... Read More
You are never too old and it is never too... Read More
"Kiss: a secret told to the mouth instead of to... Read More
It is a commonly held belief, mainly amongst men, that... Read More
Divorce happens. I'm not going to debate the causes or... Read More
I'm sorry can be words that are much too easy... Read More
Each month after completing and fine tuning Letters on Life... Read More
Having a penpal can be fun; bringing diversity into your... Read More
1) Stay committed to your "right to be right."Argue for... Read More
Coping with a new culture has never been the easiest... Read More
Relationship |