Some time ago I attended a birthday party and met a young guy who just happened to be 30. I say young because when you're 47, that is a young age!
He told me about his career in a major corporate company where he's been working for the past 3 years.
John was complaining about the extremely long hours he works?sometimes from 7.00 a.m. to 10.00 p.m. weekdays and often on weekends. He bemoaned the fact he was tired and stressed and so was everyone else he worked with.
I asked him why he continued working these hours and he answered "It's expected. People are being retrenched and those remaining want to keep their jobs".
He felt that if he didn't do these ridiculous hours he too would be out of work.
My next question was "what are you going to do about your situation to change it?". John responded with "nothing". He had no energy left to work on his own life.
I had also asked him if he had done any personal development courses and he replied he had participated in company run ones. He had never invested his own time and money doing anything external.
Take Control Yourself
I've found that those people who do not invest time and money in themselves and rely on their employer to pay for their development, dance to someone else's tune. They leave their future in someone else's hands.
In fact most people drift along in life taking whatever is dished out to them.
They cannot 'be bothered' investing any extra time, money or energy in themselves. It's much easier to float with the crowd.
Take Stock of Yourself
We're half way through another year. Have you achieved your goals this year? Have you made positive changes in the areas of relationships, finances, career, health and fitness etc.
Are you better off this year, than last year? Are you moving forwards or backwards in your life? Are you happy?
Are You Happy?
This is an interesting question to ask yourself. Are you going through the motions of living day-day or are you excited about where you are heading?
The Final Word
If you want to be the leader of your life rather than the follower, you'll need to take action. And when do you take action? Right now.
If you don't know where to head off to, get yourself a life coach. You will be amazed at how quickly you will move forward in the right direction.
Don't need help? Can do it by yourself? That's great. Then what are you waiting for?
Get moving today.
About The Author
Lorraine Pirihi, principal of The Office Organiser (http://www.office-organiser.com.au) is Australia's Personal Productivity Coach
Lorraine specialises in working with businesspeople showing them how to dramatically boost their productivity, reduce the stress and the mess in their lives and have more time for enjoying their life.
We Offer a Broad Range of Services and Products including:
Coaching for small business owners and professionals
Keynote presentations and workshops
Books, CD's, DVD's and on-line learning programs
Take action today! Contact Lorraine to discuss your specific needs at lorraine@office-organiser.com.au
As a person who has been around the coaching profession... Read More
Are holiday bills surprising you? Are you hoping that if... Read More
One of the most distressing observations I have made among... Read More
Recently, I have received several emails asking me about coaching... Read More
MOVING THROUGH CHANGECreating any major change in our lives can... Read More
People have a difficult time letting go of the past... Read More
As a healthy business owner or independent professional, how do... Read More
One of the ironies of mindfulness is that it's still... Read More
We've all been through training events-workshops, seminars, and courses that... Read More
There's a famous song lyric that asks: "Is that all... Read More
How would you like to get along even better with... Read More
How many times have you agreed to do something that... Read More
Adults with Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD) often feel like they... Read More
With the growing number of expert business people, consultants and... Read More
Having found a coach you feel comfortable and excited about... Read More
Personal missions statements (PMS) are just nothing but the winning... Read More
When you read books on personal development and articles about... Read More
OK, so it wasn't quite that big of a deal.... Read More
We don't change. I imagine such a statement could find... Read More
I turned 29 last week, and if statistics are right... Read More
I show my clients a way to answer the question,... Read More
Judging by the extraordinarily positive reader response to Po Bronson's... Read More
"My guess is first I'll need some zippy flyers and... Read More
With life coaching becoming "the" career choice in this millennium,... Read More
During a recent coaching session with Mark, I was briefly... Read More
? Have you been working long hours? ? Have... Read More
Updating my will has been on my mind for quite... Read More
As an ADD Coach, I usually begin my conversations with... Read More
More and more people have less and less time, but... Read More
People of two opposing ideas can stir up arguments and... Read More
There is a Buddhist saying that goes like this: "If... Read More
What does it mean to forgive?One of the first things... Read More
I'm almost always a calm and collected person. Or at... Read More
The name of the game is CHANGE -- that's true... Read More
WORDS THAT INSPIREA monthly quick shot to motivate you, in... Read More
Obviously, there are many wonderful things about having a personal... Read More
If you know who I mean when I say Kwame,... Read More
Someone I know wants to move into another job in... Read More
He's been around since the dawn of humanity. His profession... Read More
When I was first introduced to the profession of personal... Read More
How are you progressing with the goals you set yourself... Read More
As a whole I think there is a sad tendency... Read More
Adults with Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD) often feel like they... Read More
1. If What You Are Doing Is Not Working Change... Read More
When Zack and Tiffany started counseling with me, they were... Read More
None of us like to think of ourselves as victims.... Read More
Yes, that pillar of society that has been with us... Read More
Athletes Versus EmployeesMost athletes are young, open to improvement, eager... Read More
During my 35 years of counseling individuals, couples, families and... Read More
If you've been around the Internet for more than two... Read More
As a healthy business owner or independent professional, how do... Read More
In my work with individuals and couples, I see many... Read More
Direct Answers - Column for the week of July 22,... Read More
Activities - such as sports, creative projects, reading, work, TV,... Read More
A new definition of retirement is evolving. It's one that's... Read More
When you invest your time in being a mentee you... Read More
Why are you in business? Hopefully you enjoy what you... Read More
As adults with Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD), we often find... Read More
As a person who has been around the coaching profession... Read More
Is it really possible to have loads of fun, and... Read More
"I can't seem to discover why I'm on the planet.""What... Read More
As the last day of school arrives I feel the... Read More
My name is Steve Brummet and my business is to... Read More
Never understimate the power of a well-written word. Tens of... Read More
The scenario?The company has decided it needs to eliminate costs.... Read More
What can we learn about careers from watching Donald Trump... Read More
Coaching |