The Man - Truth of The Visual Being

The article What Turns Them On explained about how men are visual being towards a woman's beauty. But don't go off thinking that all men are shallow just yet. The also seek long-term quality's in which good looks is not the #1 priority.

Here is a list of what men usually look for in the short term and long term partner:

A.At first sight

1.Good Looks 2.Shapely Body 3.Breasts 4.Butt

B.In the long term

1.Personality 2.Good looks 3.Brains 4.Humor

Now you can't change the fact that men use visual cues to decide a possible mate. Feminists can complain about it all they want but feminists can also not change the weather.

One thing to notice is that the way a woman presents herself is more important then her having a sexy body. Remember Good Looks is ranked #1 in column A. This means that the way a woman dresses, wears her hair, presentation and grooming is more important then having a few pimples, a few extra pounds or small breasts.

Still in a long term relationship personality, humor, and intelligence is much more important then looking like one of the Hawaiian tropic girls. Good looks are ranked second in importance and you have complete control over that factor.

Good Looks in the loooooooong run

Because a woman stops taking care of her appearance a man will unknowingly think that she no longer cares or loves him. Remember men are visual beings and that man found something beautiful in that woman.

When a woman takes the time to care about her physical appearance the man thinks that she wants him to be attracted to her.

In divorce one of the biggest complaints by men is that their wives stop upkeeping their appearance. The men feel that the woman used her appearance like bait and then they no longer needed to take care of themselves after marriage. A man will wonder why a woman dresses up for her work but not for him. And for the woman she cannot comprehend why he would feel this way as she would love him no matter what he looks like.

By: Andre Leblanc

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Andre Leblanc has several years experience in the online dating and relationship field. Including implementation of new technology and creation of websites. Currently he is working on datingsas.com

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