One would be hard pressed to find an individual who isn't feeling an increase in stress and anxiety in these troubled world times. Both domestically and abroad, news reports continually speak to societies across the globe exhibiting signs of higher degrees of uncertainty and instability. In large-scale protests and in individual conversations, there are many who would like to "turn back the clock" to the way things were just a few short years ago. Interestingly, it is especially during these times of tension that we in America have historically turned to sport and recreation as a diversion. Whether as a spectator or as a participant, for many there is something therapeutic about the environment that these activities can create to "help us get away from it all". For some, the connection with golf at this time allows for a single-minded, "in the moment" experience that frees up that part of the mind that has been under strain. For others, simply the physical release of pent-up energy can have attendant calming benefits.
Like so many things in life, it regularly takes a significant event or events to shake us out of our comfortable world that we take for granted and help us put things in a more accurate light. Ask a person who can no longer walk how much they appreciated being ambulatory. Ask a person who can no longer see how much they appreciated their sight.
Where I'm going with all of this is to suggest to the Senior golfers to make a point of deeply appreciating the opportunities that you have, and to put into perspective some of those things in golf that you typically allow to upset you. Missing a short putt, hitting a drive OB and hitting an "easy" shot into a hazard are much easier to cope with when put in the context of how fortunate we are to be able to play at all. The level of frustration, anger, and anxiety that I regularly witness in golf stems in part from the person's difficulty with putting his/her experience into context. While acknowledging that many golfers have trained or practiced hard, there is, at times, an "over reaction" relative to life's big picture. I am not suggesting that anger or frustration or worry is an inappropriate emotion in golf, I'm merely proposing that these emotions be managed such that the encounter with the game not be contaminated. How sad to be unfulfilled and/or dissatisfied doing something that ostensibly has the potential to bring such joy. For many of you senior golfers, this is what you've worked hard for your whole life- to finally be able to enjoy this great game.
Next time you find yourself upset when on the golf course, catch yourself and reflect upon how important really in the scheme of life is that with which you are stewing. My suspicion is that you will enjoy yourself more if you incorporate a "big picture" outlook in your reactions.
Jeff Troesch, MA, LMHC is an internationally recognized expert in the mental side of golf. As the former Director of Sport Psychology for the David Leadbetter Golf Academies, Jeff has worked with thousands of golfers nationwide and brings a wealth of experience to seasoned golf professionals as well as the recreational golf lover. You may contact Jeff directly through his website, http://www.fitnessforgolf.com.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|


Wearing a comfortable pair of shoes is very important if... Read More
When you think of golf training aids, a number of... Read More
Core exercise for golf. You've probably heard this phrase mentioned... Read More
We would all like to have a fluid, beautiful swing... Read More
The game of golf provides trials for every player, independent... Read More
To understand how to buy golf club components, you first... Read More
A golf training book needs to be 'user-friendly' and 'plug-and-play'.... Read More
Golf is a $60 billion per year industry. Much of... Read More
Golf is a wonderful game but we all want to... Read More
There are certain aspects that any good golf conditioning tip... Read More
Who's the best?Who's the best golfer in the world? Not... Read More
Most golfers have had dozens of opportunities to receive coaching... Read More
With all the talk about the players on tour getting... Read More
No golfer can afford to ignore golf exercise and fitness... Read More
Used golf clubs can be great for those who are... Read More
Hardly any professional worth his name today will dare approach... Read More
Last week when I was at the driving range I... Read More
Nothing could be finer...Just a few short miles south of... Read More
Are you ready to take your golf game to a... Read More
The trend in larger and therefore heavier club heads in... Read More
While golf is long overdue to benefit from the application... Read More
When training in good golf swing basics is combined with... Read More
It's a pretty simple tip really, but it will help... Read More
Would you rather hear what you need to learn from... Read More
Golf is an fulfilling and absorbing sport but, even so,... Read More
Fitness for golf is a common term on the television... Read More
Whether you are a golf pro or a rookie trying... Read More
Many of the top touring professionals know that winning on... Read More
If you love to play golf as much as most... Read More
If you are like most golfers, you have purchased hundreds... Read More
A golf conditioning program should always be accompanied by a... Read More
Your shoulder strength and flexibility are essential to producing an... Read More
Planning on becoming the next Tiger Woods? If so, the... Read More


Golf instruction videos featuring techniques and tips from leading world... Read More
Chances are, if you're just starting out, you haven't decided... Read More
How can you lower your scores by simply cleaning your... Read More
When training in good golf swing basics is combined with... Read More
What's the point of playing sport if you don't want... Read More
Everything else being equals a woman cannot drive a golf... Read More
Core exercise for golf. You've probably heard this phrase mentioned... Read More
Through out the history of golf the golf ball has... Read More
There is no doubt that executing the perfect golf swing... Read More
Buffalo Bill was introduced to golf by his father at... Read More
Golf stretching exercises have been known to have such a... Read More
Gone are the days when a woman would feel intimidated... Read More
The choice of what gift to give your family and... Read More
As GPS technology gets better and better and smaller and... Read More
Perfect golf swing drills will help your golf game improve... Read More
A golf workout routine can be as simple as using... Read More
The oldest golf course in the world...If I asked you... Read More
Yes you heard it right! Golf stretches in your office.... Read More
Golf schools in resorts serve two purposes - one that... Read More
While golf is long overdue to benefit from the application... Read More
If you're a Golf Channel addict or merely an avid... Read More
All players, when they are concentrating on a stroke, are... Read More
Lately, I have received many requests for 2 things.1. Advice... Read More
How can you develop more power in your golf swing?... Read More
If you are just starting out to play golf, you... Read More
To understand how to buy golf club components, you first... Read More
Basically, your approach shot is your shot onto the green.... Read More
The golf club swing speed is what will determine your... Read More
O.k., so you love golf. I know, I know. Me... Read More
One of the most common concerns expressed by golfers is... Read More
Here in England we are on the verge of the... Read More
Every amateur golfer is constantly looking for golf secrets to... Read More
Despite many reassurances, some amateur golfers still dread golf strength... Read More
Golf |