You have presentation style habits that automatically appear when you are speaking in public. Where did these habits come from? Most likely you picked them up from watching other people give presentations, or they are carry-overs from your own conversational style. They tend to be so automatic that you aren't really aware of them.
Many presentation habits are not audience-friendly. They prevent you from connecting with the audience; they bore the audience, or they make it hard for the audience to pay attention to you. If the audience feels remote and bored, it calculates a low Return on Investment for attending the presentation and will not follow your call-to-action.
The list below describes the poor habit and the audience-friendly habit you can use instead. These are habits my coaching clients frequently need to replace with better habits.
Poor presentation habits Audience-friendly presentation habits
The best speakers analyze their presentation habits and make a plan to change their poor habits, one by one. How can you do the same?
Once you know your content fluently you can begin the analysis of your presentation style habits. Have a colleague video tape your presentation. Your helper should record your opening and 5 minutes following it, then about 5 minutes in the middle, and then the last 5 minutes. Short stretches spread out over the whole presentation will give you enough material to work with, but you won't be overwhelmed with trying to analyze the whole thing.
Use these three techniques to add audience-friendly habits to your presentations:
1. Look at the video clips. Identify which of these poor habits you have. Be specific. The worst thing you can do to yourself is to make a general evaluation such as "I look terrible."
2. Create an affirmative plan for change. Select one habit to improve. In order of importance, 1) start with habits that ignore the audience, such as lack of eye contact, and facing the slide/screen as you speak; 2) improve your oral content, so you say things in your own words; 3) work on substituting silent pauses for "uhs" and "ums" and using gestures/nods instead of "next slide, please."
Your plan to improve eye contact could be to select two different people to look at during your next practice. Exaggerate at first, perhaps by actually counting to 3 or 4 while making eye contact, so you really get a feel for it. Ask your audience if they could tell who you were looking at. Practice again with other people.
The goal is to look at each individual in a group for 2-3 seconds several times throughout your presentation. When you're speaking to a large group, you will want to make eye contact with a number of different people throughout the room.
3. Once you have added one audience-friendly habit to your presentation style, move on to another one. Taking your habits one at a time and creating a strategy for change for each one is more effective than trying to change many things at the same time.
When you Put the Audience first, and focus on how to increase the Return on Investment of every audience member, every time, you will find it easy to replace your poor speaking habits with audience-friendly ones.
Susan's expertise is coaching speakers from all industries, in all types of companies, and for every reason, so their presentations provide high value to the audience, and the presenter's standing is elevated. Call 703-790-1424 for your coaching appointment today.
Susan G. Trivers has helped hundreds of people learn great presentation habits, and coached them to use their new habits to replace poor ones. In fact, people she has helped have won over $7 billion worth of new business, giving them an extraordinary return on their invenstment.
Learn more about Susan's communication consulting and coaching at http://www.susantrivers.com. Sign up for her monthly newsletter, Create Magic in a Minute, download complimentary samples of her ebooks, and log on to Trivers Communications Group's Resources and Tips at http://blog.susantrivers.com
Copyright©2005 Susan G. Trivers
![]() |
|
![]() |
|
![]() |
|
![]() |
People take it for granted that leaders have achieved some... Read More
Does the thought of speaking in front of others send... Read More
Myth 1: Executives belong in meetings.Although the demands of business... Read More
The communication process can be much more difficult than a... Read More
Never rehearse at the last minute. This creates undue tension... Read More
For communication to take place, a message must be transmitted... Read More
Many experienced trainers feel that there is something lacking in... Read More
Regardless, if your goal is to make a sale or... Read More
Communication is a complex and often difficult process for both... Read More
Communication is vital for survival in an age of information... Read More
There are many definitions for presentations. When you present there... Read More
If you really aware and alert, your audience's behavior -... Read More
Some speakers say, "I could never use humor in my... Read More
Whether you are training preschoolers in the classroom or executives... Read More
You have presentation style habits that automatically appear when you... Read More
There are five key elements that can make... Read More
CHARACTERISTICS OF AN EFFECTIVE FACILITATOR: As chairperson, focus on the... Read More
A client recently called to say she was going to... Read More
The query letter is simply a business letter that serves... Read More
Whenever and whatever you're pitching, dozens of factors will figure... Read More
Audiences around the world are all different. Cultural, social and... Read More
The international flavour of many people's jobs naturally means that... Read More
Here, David Letterman style, are what I consider to be... Read More
The quality of your sales presentation will often determine whether... Read More
"I didn't have 3000 pairs of shoes. I had only... Read More
Tip #1 The purpose of your speech is to get... Read More
Whether you are speaking in front of a civic group... Read More
Where can you choose a company shirt vendor? There are... Read More
Have you ever had to give a speech?Do you remember... Read More
We all fear that moment. You look out on a... Read More
Interview with Julia Apple-Smith, Manager of Employee Development at Sauer-Danfoss... Read More
Regardless of the nature of our job or social standing,... Read More
Usually the emphasis on making an effective speech is what... Read More
The CEO of a worldwide business asked me to help... Read More
How many times have you attended a meeting where the... Read More
Last week my husband and I attended an awesome 4... Read More
Super Preparation ?Keys to Getting a Great Start to Every... Read More
Whenever and whatever you're pitching, dozens of factors will figure... Read More
A major cause of trainers being unreceptive to their audience... Read More
Regardless of the nature of our job or social standing,... Read More
You have presentation style habits that automatically appear when you... Read More
It is both good planning and considerate to provide auditors... Read More
A top complaint from audience members is that many presenters... Read More
Most of us would agree that having humor in our... Read More
Since the events of September 11th and the economy slipping... Read More
The communication process can be much more difficult than a... Read More
People love stories. We love to hear about other people,... Read More
As the meeting began, the project manager of the buying... Read More
Where can you choose a company shirt vendor? There are... Read More
When its time to give your next sales presentation, here... Read More
Communication is vital for survival in an age of information... Read More
At some point in your presentation you will be expected... Read More
The quality of your sales presentation will often determine whether... Read More
Does the thought of speaking in front of others send... Read More
The query letter is simply a business letter that serves... Read More
Many experienced trainers feel that there is something lacking in... Read More
Tip #1 The purpose of your speech is to get... Read More
Conventional wisdom is that the more choices customers have, the... Read More
You don't have to be on a stage to be... Read More
Once upon a time there was a businessperson who had... Read More
1. Play "find the meeting" by changing the location and... Read More
"I have a love/hate relationship with PowerPoint. In the right... Read More
THE LITTLE-KNOWN SPEECHWRITING SECRETS THAT WON GEORGE W. BUSH THE... Read More
Regardless, if your goal is to make a sale or... Read More
You speak before a group. You present your message. You... Read More
Remember back when the ability to create a slide show... Read More
Presentation |