For most children, their first experience with grief comes with the death of a beloved family pet. When Zoe the eight-week old puppy dies of parvovirus or Tweety the budgie stops singing his morning song, a child experiences profound and lasting loss for the first time in their young lives.Children... Read More
I believe that major change and loss in our lives is a door to grow ourselves, to become more loving, compassionate and accepting towards others and ourselves. We have choices that determine what the journey will look like.Change isn't easy and it can be quite painful. About twenty years ago,... Read More
Let's talk about Terry Schiavo, since her death illustrated for me many aspects of grief and hope. Who among us was not moved by the drama of her last days? I know I was. Her death was not the way I would want my own death to be. When my... Read More
There are many experiences in life, which remind us that change is an inevitable part of living. We then have to choose to either to resist this process or look for new ways of finding meaning in our lives. Losing a loved one to homicide, for example, is one of... Read More
Everyday, I look in the mirror to see the face staring back at me. Sometimes it is lined with stress, sorrow and grief. Other times, it simply smiles in humbled reservation. But the reflection of our lives... that, is who we are -- who we represent ourselves to be. For... Read More
Earlier this month I learned a dear friend had been diagnosed with terminal cancer. She has been given less than six months to live as the cancer has fully permeated her liver and pancreas.Since the diagnosis, her health has rapidly declined and the hope of realizing several more months of... Read More
It's a familiar story, and I have been through it before, and so have you. In January the Synagogue Personnel Committee told me that they were recommending that the synagogue not renew my contract. I had been here six years, and now they said it was time to go. I... Read More
Needless to say, the time after loss is volatile and confusing for most people. Unresolved issues come to the fore and questions we have not answered must often be confronted. Along with a sense of abandonment and sorrow, anger often arises. Most have little understanding of what they are going... Read More
It felt like I had been run over by a freight train. I was stunned. I was in shock. I was crying hysterically. But it was really just a phone call. My dad called and said he had to talk to my husband Jerry. I knew it was bad because... Read More
It is one thing to be free; it is quite another to be liberated. Liberation implies that freedom was absent for a time, and there was bondage. Though it may seem like a dichotomy, grief has both the power to bind and the power to liberate from bondage.Initially, when a... Read More
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For those who have deeply loved and lost their animal... Read More
The delight lit my face as the couple turned the... Read More
When he looked at me, it was clear my father... Read More
("He" in this text - to mean "He" or "She").We... Read More
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Recently, several suicides have occurred right here in my own... Read More
No one likes to think about illness and death, when... Read More
There are many experiences in life, which remind us that... Read More
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I hadn't intended to go to my cousin's funeral.That sounds... Read More
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Not long after Arlyn died, my husband and I decided... Read More
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Pippin needed assistance from his owner to get to his... Read More
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Shortly after noon, I went into Arlyn's bedroom to get... Read More
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It felt like I had been run over by a... Read More
New Tears [about Grieving]If it rains or shinesLittle does it... Read More


Why We Fear Death"Men fear death as children fear to... Read More
Oh, we can talk about the best cold medications and... Read More
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Recently, several suicides have occurred right here in my own... Read More
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My dearest Grandma, I will never forget you & sorry... Read More
Justin was a typical ten year old boy. He liked... Read More
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WHAT I LEARNED FROM POPE JOHN PAUL II ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~I am... Read More
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I didn't know a heart could die before it stopped... Read More
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