Why is it so hard to lose weight and keep it off? We have all heard that weight loss is just a matter of taking in less calories than we expend. That certainly sounds very logical, but is it really that simple?
For example, I had an intention of only eating fruits and vegetables for a day or two, to counteract the recent 'junk' food I had been enjoying. This was a solid plan that practically guaranteed a decrease in caloric intake. However, a solid plan doesn't always mean an easy execution.
I figured I would be relatively safe making a trip to the health food store. So my guard against high fat foods was down. When I got to the store, my sensibilities were assailed by a well meaning clerk hawking some freshly made corn beef and cabbage. I could hardly resist the temptation. And that wasn't the end of it. Once my armour was breached, the temptation of tasty, 'health oriented' cookie samples fought for my attention.
Once again, I capitulated. My normally strong will power seemed to crumble. And once weakened, it seemed reasonable to just continue. It's like that first drink for the recovering alcoholic.
I am by no means overweight, but once in a while my diet gets out of hand and the fat around my midsection gets a little more sizable than I am comfortable with. Usually, times like these are a great opportunity to get a little detoxification in, so I like to focus on fruits and vegetables for a day or two.
This has the dual effect of decreasing my caloric intake. I was also sticking with the simple plan mentioned above. So where did things go wrong? Did I not have enough discipline? Did I lack willpower, or was it something else?
In retrospect, the problem appears to be a lack of preparation. I failed to use the power of why. Let me explain. When the chips were down, I didn't seem to have enough reason to maintain discipline. Maybe you have had a similar experience? I rationalized with, "oh, a little won't hurt me". The truth is, once you start down that road, it can be hard to turn back.
What would the right preparation be in that case? What is this power of why that I am talking about? A great way to fortify will power with any strategy is to actually write out the reasons why sticking to your plan or achieving your goal is important. It is kind of like stockpiling ammunition. The weaponry, in this case, appears in the form of a list.
With a long list of reasons supporting the plan or the goal, I would have had a lot more reserves to draw on when my front line defenses were being stressed. When the well meaning clerk was pouncing, I should have had a ready list of whys to fall back on. As the clerk was just being nice and sounding really sensible, plus it was a free sample after all, my mind should have responded with my ready made list of why I should not vary from my plan.
That didn't happen because I never made such a list. Whatever you are trying to accomplish in life, there are bound to be obstacles and obstructions that just leap into your path to stop or block you. These are the times that you need your list. The list is your power. No list, no power.
When anyone sits down to plan something or set a goal, they need a list to support them during weak times. The longer the list, the better. Even if one has to carry the list along in one's pocket, it is worth it. A list of about 50 reasons, while hard to create, can pay off in a major way.
Imagine the clerk's surprise, had I pulled out my handy list and read it off for him. My armour would not have been pierced and the clerk would have had to move on to more ready prey or risk having the spear of temptation blunted! No list, no power.
So, how long is your list?
This article is for information purposes only. It is not meant to advise on diet or weight loss or on any health matters. If you have or think you have a health issue, including weight or diet issues, consult your primary care physician for proper diagnoses and treatment.
copyright 2005 by David Snape
Dave Snape is a health, fitness and wellness enthusiast. His website is http://tobeinformed.com
Use these tips to turbo charge your weight loss program.Take... Read More
We hear it all the time?lose weight for your health.... Read More
Did you say there's a way I can eat what... Read More
CancerCoronary heart diseaseStrokeOsteoporosisMajor Depression from Brain StarvationHeadlines.WASHINGTON, Jun 22, 2004... Read More
If you have been dieting, there is a good chance... Read More
Although all of the risks involved in gastric bypass surgery... Read More
Whew! So how did you do on that last lesson?... Read More
The main reasons most people have difficulty maintaining their ideal... Read More
Sometime, during the phase of rapid weight loss after gastric... Read More
The Atkins Diet Seems To Never Go AwayFad diets come... Read More
More and more people are turning to hypnosis or hypnotherapy... Read More
There's a two hundred year history of people prescribing both... Read More
Well, with the success of my article, "Wrinkle Remover That... Read More
Actually, I was reading about fad diet and suddenly I... Read More
I wonder how much it is generally known that the... Read More
One alternative method to traditional and tumescent liposuction is mesotherapy.... Read More
If you're thinking of going on a diet to lose... Read More
If you are looking for a way to lose fifteen... Read More
World Health Organization has observed that obesity has now reached... Read More
If you've been on a low carb diet for any... Read More
The best way to lose weight is by consuming fewer... Read More
America is getting more obese every year. Even our children... Read More
Many critics in have attacked low carb diets for only... Read More
Saboteurs are people and thoughts that are going to sabotage... Read More
You're always hungry right? The last thing you have time... Read More
A little information if often a dangerous thing... and many... Read More
Patrick Henry once said, "I have but one lamp by... Read More
Over two thirds of Americans are over weight, and half... Read More
R...real foodE...exerciseS...spiritual stuff first and the other stuff secondU...ultimately, you... Read More
Any dietary plan on the market has some portion of... Read More
Is Zone Diet a Fad?How do you recognize a fad... Read More
Did you know that less than 2% of dieters lose... Read More
Make sure that no more than a quarter of your... Read More
According to a recent survey by the National Health Institute,... Read More
America loves fast food. Last year, consumers spent billions of... Read More
When you hear a doctor or a personal trainer say,... Read More
At the University of Illinois, a new research found that... Read More
Obesity still remains one of the commonest avoidable causes of... Read More
Have you ever received those tempting ads that seem to... Read More
Gastric bypass patients often find themselves regaining weight soon after... Read More
The Review Diaries She Unlimited MagazineThere are masses of carbohydrate... Read More
My name is Greg Ryan. I am a high profile... Read More
Not only was I fat, I was in poor health... Read More
Weight Loss ? Basic Lessons for Sustained SuccessWeight loss is... Read More
I had some questions come in about Ephedra. So I... Read More
Thankfully, winter does not last forever! In the spring there... Read More
Every regime has its supply of useless folk lore and... Read More
Compulsive eating is characterized mainly by periods of impulsive bingeing... Read More
Watching television exercises our eyes but nothing else. Unfortunately, it... Read More
Ready for a hardcore diet to get lean in a... Read More
Mindfulness is all about paying attention. It's amazing what can... Read More
Twenty years of health club consulting, 50,000 hours of paid... Read More
One Reality TV show, The Swan, thrives on makeovers. Often... Read More
We all have an image of "fit" - lean, even... Read More
1. Drink 8-10 glasses of water each dayOkay, for many... Read More
Abdominal fat is now seen as a growing health hazard,... Read More
We in the diet and exercise industry have our own... Read More
Fighting obesity has become one of the most important issues... Read More
As we look around at the current generation of children,... Read More
Diners have become more health-conscious the last few years, and... Read More
So you ask, "How do I determine if I am... Read More
How to Estimate How Many Calories You Can Have and... Read More
You know what is so amazing? We get to keep... Read More
This is a perfect example of how on-line weight loss... Read More
RISING POPULARITYGastric bypass surgery has become a popular surgical procedure... Read More
Causes of ObesityJust like there is no weight loss pill... Read More
Weight Loss |