Have you been in that "black hole?" That is the place that is so dark and keeps sucking you in. It can seem like there is no way out, so what is the use of going on.
I just emerged from one recently. It was seemingly more distressing because I am such a "positive" person. The truth is I have fears and doubts like anyone else.
I am a believer in creating my reality from the thoughts and feelings I send out. I know that the experiences I was having (and kept attracting) were a result of being stuck in a low vibration. I had a series of rushing into decisions and paying for them later. Even being aware of this did not prevent me from doing it all over again.
I was fortunate enough to work through this with my life coach. I was able to see the underlying issue of lack of self-esteem and feeling on a subconscious level that I was not deserving of the abundance life has to offer, was a core issue for me.
The powerful part of the act of going through this was the fact that I felt it. I worked through it and experienced it on a deep level.
There is so much today about the law of attraction (which does control your reality), but I feel there is a component of this that may be misunderstood. I am the first to agree that my job is to feel better and to raise my vibration. If I were to have just reached for the thought that felt better and not worked through the feelings, most likely they would have risen up at a later time.
I was present in my feelings and experienced them on a physical level. I let them be in my body and work from there. It is a great gift to be able to process this and have someone there to guide me through it.
I am writing about my experience because I believe it is a gift to those that are struggling with their own "black holes" and trying to change their point of attraction. There is a fine balance in knowing when to "just get off it" and move on, and going deeper into it and moving through it. I know that a huge part of this process is letting what is be okay. Until you are at peace with the place you are now, you are stopping the process. So maybe that "black hole" you are in now is the gift to usher you into the next level in your life.
I often think of the wise words of Byron Katie (www.thework.org) when she said, "Don't be spiritual, be honest." Be kind to yourself, allow yourself to be human and feel your truth.
If you would like to work through your journey with a Life Coach, please contact me for a free ½ hour conditional consult.
Warmly,
Nancy Heimstra, Life Coach
Nancy Heimstra, Life Coach
coachnancy@spirit-alchemy.com
When you make a decision, you hope it is ultimately... Read More
What's most astounding is that the vast majority of business... Read More
That's all it takes to change the world. Take a... Read More
The questions of life may call to you. You may... Read More
Character is that which defines us; it's what people will... Read More
What was your energy level like today? Did you wake... Read More
Ever had a time in your life when those closest... Read More
If you've done any reading on the subject of marketing,... Read More
The other night, leg cramps kept me up at night... Read More
There was a woman who was in such a hurry... Read More
Whilst everyone seems hell bent on becoming "wealthy" at all... Read More
The Great Goddess may be an ancient echo in the... Read More
Making a fabulous impression on people opens doors for your... Read More
I was working with this guy who wanted to live... Read More
Being a child of the Seventies I'm a real fan... Read More
The Luck Factor rips apart the notion that luck is... Read More
Over time, the TIP's Letters that receive the most response... Read More
If you've ever thought about wanting to increase your physical... Read More
That which you desire to remove from your life is... Read More
'Image & Professionalism' we hear these words being thrown around... Read More
Over half of all adults identify themselves as shy. Shyness... Read More
"It's choice ? not chance ? that determines your destiny."... Read More
While I was growing up, my dad repeatedly told me... Read More
The joy of living is in loving. No doubt, only... Read More
As we age and our teeth shift, a gap between... Read More
You don't need a guitar, rock-hard abs, or even a... Read More
Although you know better, you do not apply all that... Read More
Recently, I received an interesting email in which a woman... Read More
Introduction"Where you find yourself tomorrow is a function of the... Read More
If we could choose right now, this moment, how we... Read More
In part 1 of this series, we discussed your Total... Read More
The idea I'm about to share with you can bring... Read More
Many people forget business is a way of service. When... Read More
The late Cuban singer and queen of salsa, Celia Cruz,... Read More
There was a woman who was in such a hurry... Read More
Imagine there is an event that will take place in... Read More
If you don't know where you are going, you won't... Read More
Very often when you are talking to people what you... Read More
Most people want to do their life's work. Some people... Read More
Without appreciation, any success you have will be in vain... Read More
If you read personal growth or self-help books at all,... Read More
Many of us mistakenly believe that it's wrong or conceited,... Read More
When you begin to study feng shui, you quickly realize... Read More
The process of human change begins within us. We all... Read More
I find it particularly disheartening when I hear someone refer... Read More
How To Prove To Yourself That You Are Going After... Read More
If you think success, happiness and love are going to... Read More
Most of the time, we attract by 'default' rather than... Read More
He always looks perfectly put together. He can be in... Read More
The Law of Attraction T-ToolTM is the single most useful... Read More
You are a money magnet. Money is flowing to you... Read More
What separates successful people from unsuccessful people, achievers from non-achievers,... Read More
Feeling trapped by lack of funds? We can learn from... Read More
You only have to look around you at your friends,... Read More
See if this scenario sounds familiar. You're under a lot... Read More
"You make a living by what you get. You make... Read More
Many people on the planet are realizing that the key... Read More
Gnothi seauton,, said Socrates. "Know thyself."These words remain as true... Read More
Who's World Is It?Who's world really is it? Is it... Read More
Most people want to be liked appreciated loved and adored... Read More
Most business people would rather have customers seek us out... Read More
"Your face is my map to your life." - Houdini,... Read More
Is there a way to change your life condition, and... Read More
You don't need a guitar, rock-hard abs, or even a... Read More
What was your energy level like today? Did you wake... Read More
Think for a moment about all the people you know... Read More
Attraction |