Male and Swinging Single

As a single male trying to enter into the lifestyle successfully, I am sure you have discovered that this may be no small task for you.

First, you must get yourself recognized. I suggest placing a personal ad on an adult lifestyle site. Placing an ad in newspapers or magazines could possibly get you unwanted replied from unwanted people who may not even be lifestyle minded. Also, once your ad is there it's there and becomes outdated. I strongly suggest a lifestyle site.

How you place your ad and it's contents is extremely important.

Stating that you have an unusually huge private part that hangs to your knees and that you work it like a jack hammer is not what impresses serious swinging couples.

Prospective partners want to know about you. Your hobbies and what you like to do for fun outside of the bedroom.

Always be honest in your ad. Never state that you are single if in fact you are married and swinging without your spouse.

A couple may be willing to look past the fact that you are swinging without your spouse,

But, once they realize that you have lied to them, they will lose all interest in you.

Trust and honesty are very important!

Most swinger clubs allow single men only one night a week if they are allowed at all.

I do not advise taking a hired escort!

You may get lucky and meet a couple who is looking for a one night stand but then again, you may meet a couple that is looking for friendship as well as sex. Informing them that your date for the evening is hired makes you look desperate. This will only put you into a bad situation.

Seek a single female that you enjoy being with. One who is into the lifestyle and who will enjoy going to swinger parties and other events with you.

Your search should begin on the site where you place your ad.

As a single male, you are very much wanted in the lifestyle. Without you MFM fantasies are difficult to turn into realities.

But, remember that there are many of you to choose from. Be honest, respectful and most of all be yourself.

You will find yourself right in the middle of a totally awesome encounter that goes beyond your wildest dreams.

For more information on the lifestyle including my latest book release "in the Swing of things" please visit http://www.ginsopinion.com

Also, I recommend http://www.stlifestyle.com/go?jstusinsc4fun. This is an awesome swinger site to place your ad and to meet with an awesome community of swingers.

Thanks for reading my article, I certainly hope you find it to be informative.

Sensually,
Gin

Gin is a Syndicated Columnist and author for The Lifestyle and is featured on news sites across the world...

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