Has this ever happened to you? You're at a bar or nightclub and you see this lovely lady across the way that you're attracted to and dying to meet.
You keep watching her for a long time, waiting for the right time and opportunity to approach her and meet her. You keep pondering and stalling. This can go on even after an hour of trying to get up your nerve to approach her. So, you keep procrastinating.
Well, guess what happens when you hesitate? I'm sure you've heard of the expression, "You snooze, you lose!" What will happen is before you know it she will get up and leave or even worse, some other guy makes a move on her and beats you to the punch.
You must never, never wait for the perfect opportunity to meet single women you are attracted to and want to meet. You must approach her right then and there without hesitation. Just do it! Do it now! The more time you take to ponder your decision as to when you should make your move, the more time you will have to talk yourself out of it.
If you become a procrastinator when it comes to meeting and approaching women, you will see one opportunity after another lost to meet all those hot & sexy women you desire.
One of the biggest reasons I was always successful with women was because of my "take action attitude." When I saw a woman I'd like to meet I never hesitated. I never gave myself time to think about whether I should approach her or not. I just took action and did it. I had a "do it now" mentality.
With practice, you too can develop this mentality. When you do, everything will come naturally. You will approach women immediately without hesitation. With this "can do" mentality you will come across as confident in the eyes of women that you approach. You know what you want and go after it. Trust me guys, women just love confident men. Always remember this fact and conduct yourself accordingly, to take advantage of this girl-getting personality trait.
This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and become intimate with women, please visit his website at: http://www.getgirls.com - This article is copyright (c) 2005 by Don Diebel and may be reprinted in it's entirety as long as his website, byline, and copyright statement is included.
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