Yes I know that we usually think of interviews as us doing all the talking, but the reality is different. At least 40% of the time we should be listening, and what we hear will have an enormous effect on what we say.
So listening well is a most important interview skill.
But why do so many of us find it difficult to listen well? After all, so long as our hearing is not actually impaired we can hear most of what is going on around us. However many of us will find listening difficult for a number of reasons:
? if there is anything we might consider unusual, or irritating about the speaker's appearance, voice, accent or pronunciation we allow it to put us off;
? we naturally think at about four or five times the speed at which we think, so when someone else is doing the talking we can find a lot of time to allow our minds to wander;
? our own thoughts are generally of more concern to us and we find it easier and more pleasant to tune in to these than concentrating on what someone else is saying;
? since we were quite young we have taught ourselves to listen to many things at once, and actually pay only the minimum attention to any of them, so it becomes difficult to pay attention to one thing for a longer period of time;
? as soon as we think we've heard enough to establish in our minds what response is needed, we stop listening to the speaker and start composing our answer.
Misunderstandings arise from failing to pay full attention in many situations, but in the interview it could cost you the job you really wanted.
With his background of over 25 years running businesses, and as a Career Coach and Consultant in many sectors, Peter Fisher guides job seekers through the steps needed in order to achieve that all important new position.
As Managing Director of Career Consulting Limited, and previously MD of three recruitment companies, he has personally coached thousands of individuals to career success.
His distillation of these years of experience is all the essential facts and actions you must complete in order to achieve your own success. He is very clear that you shouldn't be misled by others into thinking of "acing interviews" or "finessing" your way into a business; the most sustainable and fulfilling roles are gained through understanding your own specific needs and creating your strategy accordingly.
You can learn more about his dynamic and comprehensive approach to career change, with every page dedicated to helping serious career changers if you go to http://www.your-career-change.com/index.html
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|


Going to an interview without a plan of action is... Read More
Landing a telecommute position isn't easy. Finding them in the... Read More
In our ever changing world where job competition is rampant... Read More
Despite how important fair pay is to most of us,... Read More
If you were thinking of offering your employees special rewards... Read More
I was asked last week for an article about employment,... Read More
Why Career Advice Is So ImportantChoosing a career presents a... Read More
(DES MOINES, Iowa ? January 26, 2005) The fateful final... Read More
The attorneys I coach have one common problem. They don't... Read More
Non-verbal interview behavior can drown out your verbal self-presentation.Practice interviewing... Read More
Don't just sit there and bob your head, waiting to... Read More
You need to be the best you can at describing... Read More
Hal Rosenbluth, author of The Customer Comes Second, states; "In... Read More
Too many job seekers set themselves up for failure before... Read More
There is one little practice that is vital to generating... Read More
Buying a suit can be an important investment when you... Read More
Are you in this situation? You and your boss just... Read More
About four years ago a friend told me one night... Read More
Follow these quick and easy tips to build yourself a... Read More
What is FraudFraud occurs when a person knowingly or intentionally... Read More
As much as you are yearning for career-change, and as... Read More
Recently we concluded the placement of a Senior Sales Representative... Read More
Searching for jobs online is easier than ever, but also... Read More
When the word "networking" is used, we tend to think... Read More
An epidemic of white-collar financial crime has resulted in the... Read More
1. You dread getting out of bed and going to... Read More
Some interview questions are asked so frequently that they've become... Read More
(Percussion sounds emanating from who knows where while you listen... Read More
Is Kenexa recruiting for Microsoft or just mining for data?I... Read More
We often use the phrase, "Get Your Feet Wet" when... Read More
One of the great myths associated with the "American Dream"... Read More
Get Off the Treadmill - Exit Your Rat Race!We can... Read More
The world sure is changing, and if you look at... Read More


Are you miserable at your job (or what you are... Read More
Q. I'm looking for a new job and plan to... Read More
Searching for employment is one of the most nerve-racking activities... Read More
1. Be CompleteMake sure that your resume includes EVERYTHING your... Read More
A "blog" is simply an internet (web) log. Blogs are... Read More
"Happiness is not having what you want, but wanting what... Read More
It is important to prepare thoroughly for your telephone interview.Begin... Read More
When communication breaks down in your office or factory and... Read More
Most people at some point in their lives have to... Read More
According to a recent survey, 52% of job candidates polled... Read More
Bringing your emotional baggage into the work place is inappropriate... Read More
This is one of those broad questions that can take... Read More
Mental preparation is probably your most important task as you... Read More
Your cover letter is critical to your success. It sets... Read More
Recruiting firms, like most businesses today, must embrace technology in... Read More
Q. Right after I accepted my new position, the manager... Read More
Good things seem to come in bunches, especially in a... Read More
How many times have you heard or read, "Our employees... Read More
Online distance learning has gained rapid popularity with the advent... Read More
So, you currently have a job but you are looking... Read More
Of course, mistakes are important. Two facts put those you... Read More
Your career, like any journey, has a beginning, an end... Read More
10. Understand all of the opportunities available to you. Don't... Read More
Of course, she then offered me a six-month process, costing... Read More
Anyone who is a jobseeker knows that looking for a... Read More
Despite how important fair pay is to most of us,... Read More
I always look forward to the December issue of... Read More
People work to live, but most also live to work.... Read More
Ask yourself this question: "Do I like what I do... Read More
If you left your last job under less-than-ideal circumstances, you... Read More
Q. "I wasn't happy with my last performance review. Should... Read More
There are many reasons why you could be in the... Read More
Guess what. The results are out they are ugly. Pretty... Read More
Careers, Jobs & Employment |