Law of Attraction Article: How to STOP Being a Person Nothing Works For

Do you ever wonder why great things happen to some people but not to you?

Do you ever read about people who have tried this or that product and had some incredible result, but when you try it, you don't get the same result?

Have you become a person who NOTHING seems to work for?

Maybe you've thought about trying the some new self- improvement package that sounds great, but you're just so tired of things not working for you.

Let's take a look at how you've gotten where you are and why these things might happen.

First, at some point, you tried something - either based on a recommendation, a testimonial you read, or some other reason. Basically, you tried it based on someone else's positive experience.

However, when you tried it, you did not get the same result so you made the assumption that it didn't work for you. But how true IS this? Often - VERY often - things work differently for different people, and it's a mistake to judge your life by comparing it with others. Perhaps you just needed more time.

Maybe your circumstances are completely different! Regardless, however, you made up - you CREATED a Truth for yourself at that time, that truth being "This didn't work", although remember, that truth is based only on your surface comparison with someone else... and it really doesn't have anything to do with you, and what - in the cosmic scheme of things - is best for you.

Those results you read about for that other person are what was right at that time for them, and that doesn't necessarily mean that NOW is the time for you and that it will happen to you the same way that it happened for them!

From then on, every thing else you try is then compared to that first experience, with the Truth in your mind being "Well, it didn't work that time...let's see if THIS works". So again you're comparing... and not really trying anything "purely" and on it's own merit without preconceived notions or judgements.

You are already working against yourself! You may not yet automatically expect failure, but you have it as an option, and perhaps even a probability based on your previous experiences.

The more things you try with this mindset, the more you fortify this mindset - it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy that "Nothing works for me". Before you know it, that is who you become. The person you are about reaching your specific goals or trying this or that product or technology is "It works for others but never for me." Once you reach that place, it will most certainly become true for you.

So what do you do? How do you break out of this pattern? First, acknowledge how you got here... by comparing yourself or your results with other people who are really on a completely different path then you, although they may have been after similar results. Then create a new idea for yourself - give yourself permission to experience success on your own terms, without judging what happens based on other people or expectations set up by anyone other than yourself.

Once you believe that you deserve to succeed and that you CAN succeed and that you WILL succeed, your life will change. Whatever you try will work for you, because YOU define what "working" is - not somebody else! You set your own timetable, you are relaxed, and non-judgement. Your infinite patience and lack of expectation based externally, will work with you in very powerful ways and you will regain control over your destiny.

Bob Doyle is the CEO and founder of Boundless Living and the developer of the Wealth Beyond Reason program, which provides a continuing education of the physics of wealth, abundance, and joyous living through the Law of Attraction. RadicalWealthFromHome.com

---

The ?Stand-Out? Principle

Think for a moment about all the people you know... Read More

How To Be Interesting

Most people want to be liked appreciated loved and adored... Read More

Character or Reputation

Character or Reputation. When we see these two words together,... Read More

Abundance Flourishes in an Atmosphere of Integrity

There's no way to fake INTEGRITY. You are either are... Read More

Vacation Longing: What You Can Learn From It

Every person's life journey is unique. Figuring out what you... Read More

Why Do We Settle? You Have the POWER to Change the Outcome

Why do we settle for less and then make excuses... Read More

How Do You Choose To Deal With Your Life?

"It's choice ? not chance ? that determines your destiny."... Read More

Opportunity Will Knock, If It Can Find The Door

Is your home office a spare room full of whatever... Read More

To Live Or To Live With Purpose: That?s The Ultimate Question

Each person has her or his own place and purpose.... Read More

Aspirations Worth Their Weight in Platinum

"To succeed, planning alone is insufficient. One must improve as... Read More

How The Power of Attraction Can Help You Get What You Want?

"Success is not to be pursued; it is to be... Read More

The Monkey And The Spreadsheet

When the mind was fidgety, like a monkeyWhen you felt... Read More

Bad Luck ... Or Blessing In Disguise?

There was a woman who was in such a hurry... Read More

If You Want Others to Like You, Like Yourself First!

Many of us mistakenly believe that it's wrong or conceited,... Read More

October: A Month of Personal Harvest

October is hands down my favorite month. Every year l... Read More

Your #1 Path to Hidden Power

Imagine that you could boost your confidence, courage, and compassion... Read More

Whats Your Plan? Designing Your Future

So you have set your goals for the year. Congratulations!I... Read More

Manifesting Your Abundance

I believe in myself, therefore, I have all that my... Read More

A Fun Way To Make A Living

"You must be willing to do the things today others... Read More

Mind Your Mind

Three Secrets to Effective Affirmations:1 Drive your Physiology - by... Read More

Do You Have Tickets To Your Dream Theater?

I'd like you to do an exercise with me.I want... Read More

Affirm Actions: Stop Lying to Your Soul and Make It Real!

I hear of so many people using affirmations as the... Read More

7 Ways to Drive a Man Wild

It's unbelievable the amount of bad advice there is out... Read More

How to Get that It Factor Happening

Sitting here today in sunny Queensland Australia, I'm reflecting on... Read More

Creating Relationship Synergy through Rapport Building

One of the great things about rapport is that it... Read More

How To Master The Art of Conversation

The art of conversation is a skill shared by most... Read More

Right Thinking

Nothing ever happens by chance. Everything, good or bad, that... Read More

How to Manage Self Consciousness

Self consciousness is an essential part of being human, but... Read More

Ten Tips For Setting (And Keeping) Life Changing Resolutions

It's time for that annual ritual of making (and breaking)... Read More

5 Powerful Steps To Unleashing Your Creative Self

There is a thread of certainty that runs through many... Read More

The Law of Attraction in Action

Would you like to be able to experience more of... Read More

Why Character and Integrity Are So Important

It's been said that character is defined by what you... Read More

Emotional Alchemy

See if this scenario sounds familiar. You're under a lot... Read More