You have been preparing for months. You are in position and you are ready. A swell develops and begins to transform before your very eyes. A monster wave is now bearing down upon you. Your training and instincts kick in as you paddle to meet the motion of your wave. The wave tries to bully you showing it is a fierce competitor. You apply all of your skill and training as you find yourself dropping nearly straight down a mountain of angry water. You maintain your balance and you handle your wave with great skill and superb style. You barely avoid the hazards and have several moments of truth where even in your confidence you are not completely sure you are going to make it. But you do make it. You ride through to where the wave finally breaks taking you elegantly to the shore like royalty arriving on a red carpet.
What if this happened and you had no one to share it with? You might not really be an ocean surfer, but I am certain you have days like this no matter what you do. When you have a great ride, it is important to reflect and share with your team. This is just as important as when things go bad or you have a wipe out.
Celebrate great rides and build on each other's successes. Learn from each other and discuss what you can learn from your victories as well as your setbacks and defeats. Look at what you can learn and apply to other areas of your life and your business. Use the adrenaline boost from your great rides to give you momentum and victories to build from.
Use Mistakes and Setbacks to Build and Strengthen Your Team
Reread the paragraph under Celebrate Great Rides inserting the following alternate ending.
?Just as you think you have made it, you lose your balance and wipe out in spectacular fashion. You are now under the water with the force of the angry ocean churning you over and over. Your lungs feel like fire and you are not even sure which way is up. A brief moment of panic starts to turn into terror as you begin to question your very survival. Out of the darkness, you begin to see light and your air bubbles. You begin to follow your bubbles up and just when you think you are about to lose your air, you break free of the ocean's grip and fresh oxygen replenishes you burning lungs.
Every person and every team who has any ambition will experience frustration, setbacks, defeat and sometimes worse. Great rides are what you shoot for, but every wipe out you survive provides you with experience and perspective. Our difficulties and our failures give us a gift to learn and benefit from.
Make no mistake you will wipe out. The only way to not wipe out is to never challenge the surf and to never leave you comfort zone. The results of not trying are far worse over time than failing forward. Apply the Stack Strategy to accept feedback and correct course any and every time you have a setback or wipe out. Do an after action report and work with your team to learn and apply to the future.
"Failure without learning is still failure. Failure with learning is experience!"
This article is an excerpt from Franks latest book, Carpe Aqualis! set to come out this August.
Frank F. Lunn is an expert in leadership, marketing, and small business entrepreneurship. In his book, Stack the Logs! - Building a Success Framework to Reach Your Dreams, Frank outlines a simple 5-step strategy that will lead you to success in all areas. Find more useful article by Frank at http://www.stackthelogs.com
Note: This article may be reprinted as long as it remains complete and unaltered (including the about the author information), and a copy of your reprint is sent to tim@stackthelogs.com.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|


I'm going to begin this article by sharing a little... Read More
Hey,Josh here from Investor Wealth Academy sitting 29 stories above... Read More
In earlier generations it was common to keep a diary... Read More
Cool Facts: Walt Disney went bankrupt several times before he... Read More
There is a difference but what constitutes a life... Read More
You've tried and failed. You've watched others fall. You're wiped... Read More
No surprise - winning traits are common among high achievers.Are... Read More
Do you know that there is a formula for attaining... Read More
Think out of the box, they say. But what's a... Read More
If it comes to the question what we really want... Read More
Bill is a man for the people, of the people... Read More
I receive several emails every week asking me about how... Read More
Have you ever made plans in your career but never... Read More
Have you ever wondered if there was a way to... Read More
Not only do we communicate with ourselves, but our cells... Read More
Noted author and self-worth teacher Eric Butterworth* says, "Poverty is... Read More
Success! Easy to talk about, but difficult to achieve. Or... Read More
1. Any work activity, unless initiated at the earliest will... Read More
Fourteen thousand civilised people died when the tsunami hit Andaman... Read More
Quote of the month: Am I working to live or... Read More
The Chicago Times once printed that Henry Ford was an... Read More
Does your life feel less than fulfilling? Are you waiting... Read More
In so many areas of life we must always be... Read More
An effective self- concept generates the desire to strive for... Read More
'No man is an island' the saying goes. The implication... Read More
Are there any universal laws that most successful people seem... Read More
Remove these words from your vocabulary!The words "If only ?"... Read More
With the end of the year fast approaching, now is... Read More
This revelation hit me the other day while I was... Read More
Okay, so you've finally made that big decision to start... Read More
Just how powerful is the Subconscious Mind and how can... Read More
We must never allow a day to pass without finding... Read More
Every single one of us is trying to reach success.... Read More


Adults, with eyes to see, can learn so much about... Read More
Reading is an integral part of our daily work lives.... Read More
Quote of the month: Am I working to live or... Read More
Are you:- feeling unfulfilled and dissatisfied with your life?- ready... Read More
One of the most common refrains I hear from people... Read More
If you are like me you have probably lost a... Read More
We live in the information age, dominated by the development... Read More
"I am the greatest warrior. I have fought with gods... Read More
Sometimes it is better to just get on with doing... Read More
If you'd like to fulfill your long-held dreams, try a... Read More
FOCUSAs you're building your business, you can choose to win... Read More
One of my absolute favorite quotes is from Dwight D.... Read More
Hello everybody and a good day (or night !) to... Read More
J. Paul Getty appeared to be incredibly lucky, but it... Read More
"When you talk to yourself, you listen. No matter what... Read More
As I have worked with people over the years I... Read More
Trying to keep up with the Jones only drags good,... Read More
How many times do we fail at something, then attemp... Read More
What do you need to do to be successful? If... Read More
One of the keys to being successful in anything you... Read More
It sounds simple- right? You are where you THINK you... Read More
Most self-help truths are obvious but obvious truths are often... Read More
Mary and Susan were friends for years. They grew up... Read More
I prefer to call the challenges, obstacles, side-tracks, and barriers... Read More
All too often, people pursue a vision of material success... Read More
The best way to predict your future is to create... Read More
Back from my amazing summer excursion, a month long drive... Read More
What does "Lessons from My Garden" have to do with... Read More
Let's set the scene. You're in a packed stadium. It's... Read More
Thomas Edison has done it. Naomi Watts often jokes about... Read More
Create an environment that is so inspiring and nurturing that... Read More
In a recent article (What is The Ultimate Lifestyle), I... Read More
An old fable tells about a religious man and a... Read More
Success |