We hear it every day.
"Buy this product, and simplify your life!"
Now really, how can buying and having more stuff make your life simpler and easier? I hear it from women all the time, "I have everything I've ever wanted, but?
"I don't have time to enjoy it."
"I'm more stressed out than ever."
"I'm still not happy."
What I've discovered is the common misconception that we need more-things, tools, gadgets-to make our lives less complicated. Sounds crazy, doesn't it?
I suggest that the road to simplicity is lined with what we cast off or stop doing. And I'd love to see the biggest pile be those items/concepts that enable us to "work more efficiently". Have you noticed that "work more efficiently" just means "work more"?
Anything that makes your life simpler should pass the following test:
1. What is my initial gut reaction?
2. Does it allow me to do more of what I want to do vs. just do more?
3. Can I afford it? Not only in terms of money, but in terms of time, efficiency and stress?
If the latest gadget, service, consultant, whatever doesn't pass all three tests-it's not worth it!
Here's a way to start simplifying your life TODAY.
Cross one item off your to-do list.
Go ahead, right now. Just cross something off and not think of it again. You can do it. You probably already have at least one item on there that you know you'll never do anyway. So rather than subject yourself to the daily guilty of carrying it over, get rid of it!
Do this once a week (or once a month, if that's more comfortable for you), and you'll be pleasantly surprised at how much simpler your life becomes. Without buying one more thing.
(c)2005 Barbara Bellissimo.
Barbara Bellissimo is a women's life transformation coach, and author of the book, "Become Your Own Great and Powerful: A Woman's Guide to Leading Your Real, Big Life."
Visit http://www.seasonsofsuccess.com to get her no-cost special report--"Turn On Your Power and Lead Your Self to Greatness"--and her easy-to- use tools and ideas for leading the real, big life you want--right now!
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|


Spring is here and its time to sweep away the... Read More
There is nothing worse then spending ten minutes looking for... Read More
I followed my boss to a co-worker's cubicle where my... Read More
Your closet is often the first thing you see in... Read More
Staying organized can be a constant battle. The following organizing... Read More
? Do you feel overwhelmed by all the "stuff" in... Read More
In most homes, paper causes clutter. And it seems to... Read More
I recently conducted a survey to look at the relationship... Read More
Professional organizers and helpful-hint sources often recommend storage solutions such... Read More
We are bombarded with so many factors that perpetuate disorganization.... Read More
Whoever thought you'd be able to get organized in just... Read More
1. Teach your children to use an alarm clock or... Read More
You arrived on earth without clutter. Your parents and doting... Read More
Helping people clean out their closet is something I love... Read More
At this point, you have probably run across some belongings... Read More
Have nothing in your houses that you do not know... Read More
Ever feel overwhelmed by all the papers, notices, artwork, and... Read More
De-Cluttering our lives can be an extremely liberating exercise. There... Read More
Getting and staying organized is critical to achieving your goals.... Read More
Whether you are in your own business or an employee... Read More
Paper1. You may already be in the habit of filing... Read More
You start each week with great intentions. You are determined... Read More
I like a room you can dance in the middle... Read More
Balance- what a popular topic these days! Finding a work-life... Read More
Do you feel like you are running around in circles,... Read More
We previously noted that papers must be sorted before they... Read More
In many of the companies I have worked in, there... Read More
Life with ADD (Attention Deficit Disorder) can be a constant... Read More
It happens without warning. One day you notice your home... Read More
I talk about the mail a lot in my newsletter,... Read More
What stops you from 'getting things done?'Have you ever started... Read More
Everytime Mary had to find a file on her computer,... Read More
The Mexican VillagerThe American investment banker was at the pier... Read More


Finish each day and be done with it. You have... Read More
The Mexican VillagerThe American investment banker was at the pier... Read More
Feeling overwhelmed at the thought of organizing your home? Start... Read More
You really can have a successful business and a great... Read More
Cleaning out can seem overwhelming -- especially if it's been... Read More
Ever wonder how they do it? How a short-order cook... Read More
There are 3 kinds of clutter: Inner (between our ears);... Read More
To make room for new things to come into you... Read More
The Law of the 1st StepA good first step in... Read More
Do you ever sit down at your desk buried in... Read More
The following procedures will insure an organized and well run... Read More
Clutter in any area of your home is a sign... Read More
I followed my boss to a co-worker's cubicle where my... Read More
Are stacks of papers, mail, newspapers, and growing "to do"... Read More
There is nothing worse then spending ten minutes looking for... Read More
The summer is flying by for Cindy and her family.... Read More
If you have piles of paper all over your desk,... Read More
How many of us have enough time to do everything... Read More
Parenting is always a challenge, but particularly so if your... Read More
I have a huge white board in my home office,... Read More
A daily journal will save you time, reduce stress and... Read More
Article excerpted from the new book, "How to Do Space... Read More
It takes effort to get results, and not just any... Read More
"I don't have enough room!" -- this is a common... Read More
Do you feel like you are running around in circles,... Read More
You know, in psychology there is a rule, especially within... Read More
Professional organizers and helpful-hint sources often recommend storage solutions such... Read More
Paper1. You may already be in the habit of filing... Read More
Sometimes major life lessons come from the most unlikely of... Read More
Are you overwhelmed by clutter wherever you turn? Here are... Read More
For some reason, Americans think they have something to prove... Read More
The National Association of Professional Organizers has dedicated January to... Read More
It may seem far-fetched, but by organizing your desk, your... Read More
Get Organized - Organization |