Improve Your Marriage With Better Communication

Communication plays one of the most important roles in any type of relationship whether a professional association or a more intimate bond such as marriage. Many of these relationships don't develop into their full potential because the communication link is missing or weak. If you're looking to save your marriage or connect with your marriage partner on a deeper level, the following advice may give you a new perspective that can help your marriage grow into the relationship you've always wanted.

Feelings of disappointment are often caused because a person's desires or needs have not been openly expressed and therefore haven't been fulfilled. It is vital to share your thoughts and feelings with your spouse so that each partner in the marriage has fewer doubts or questions in his or her mind. You already share your life with that person; why not share your thoughts? If everything is out on the table, what's there to wonder or worry about? This marriage advice reduces the chance of someone feeling mislead or disillusioned and could definitely help strengthen your marriage bond in a very meaningful way.

Effective communication is not only about speaking to one another but also listening to what each other is saying. You may think you are helping your marriage by talking things out with your partner but taking that a step further and listening to what you and your spouse are discussing is what will really help save your marriage. All you need to do is pay close attention to how many times something is repeated, the emphasis on certain words or phrases, and the body language that is used when expressing those ideas.

You will find it much more beneficial to set some time aside when you can be alone and uninterrupted, preferably outside of the home. If that is not practical, at least choose a time when you will have the least amount of distractions. Wait until the children are in bed, turn off your cell phones, and maybe even take your phone off the hook. An untimely phone call could ruin the moment and cause you to lose momentum. This is a very important key to a good marriage and should be given the proper respect.

If your marriage is lacking the bond you long for, try listening and watching your partner a little more closely to uncover his or her real desires. Don't be afraid to ask questions either. You want to be very clear on exactly what they are saying. This whole process of communication may seem a little awkward at first, but it will get easier. The benefits of having your best friend as your spouse in a loving relationship will far outweigh the effort you put into it.

The advice provided above will definitely help strengthen your marriage bond. Try these few tips and you'll notice the positive results and the beginning of a successful marriage!

2004 Kristin Craft. You may freely distribute this article in your newsletter, on your website or in your print publication provided you include the copyright and resource box at the end. Hyperlinks should remain active whenever possible. Notification would be appreciated but not required.

Kristin Craft is the owner and webmaster of Marriage-Success which provides helpful tips and resources for married couples and those considering marriage. Couples that are experiencing difficulties in the marriage can especially benefit by visiting Save My Marriage. ===============================================

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