Take Your Time

How long do you think it takes to really get to know someone to the point where you could marry them? Is 1 month long enough? Is 6 months long enough? Is 1 year long enough? What do you think of people who believe in love at first site? Is it infatuation or genuine love? I don´t intend to answer these questions, but how you answer them will impact how you approach dating and relationships.

However, no matter what your answer to the questions above there are some things that you should be aware of. First, rushing into a relationship makes you much more vulnerable for a bad relationship. If you take your time getting to know someone you will learn about their good and bad points. If you watch their behaviors over time you will get a feel for how they handle pressure and stress, how they are with children, how they are with their family, how they treat you when you are with their friends. Second, quick engagements are typically so couples can have sex and SEX alone doesn´t make a relationship. Third, most people who are abusive want a quick engagement and marriage because they cannot hide their true behaviors and feelings too long (yes this is a generalization, but it is often true). Fourth, time will let YOU know if you are dating the person you feel most comfortable with. Time will let you know if you and your partner can trust each other with each others hearts.

I should mention that in four to six months most people know if marriage is a possibility or not in their relationships.... ...I did :-)

Yaya - Jaters.com Admin
www.jaters.com - Free jewish dating, jewish singles & jewish matchmaking service

Yair Czitrom is the owner and webmaster of http://www.jaters.com - An experienced online dater that took his dating knowledge and web skills to help other daters/singles in today's cyber world. He is an expert writer on ezinearticles.com and searchwarp.com

---

Are You Considering Online Dating?

Jody's quest in finding a suitable partner for marriage seemed... Read More

Online Dating ? How To Avoid Faked Photos

One of the great things about online dating is the... Read More

How a Blind Date Can Increase Your Psychic Abilities

So how can a blind date increase your psychic abilities?... Read More

Youve Been Dumped! Heres How to Get Over It

We've all been there. We've fallen in love with somebody... Read More

Yahoo Personals Offers a Great Way to Meet and Date New People

With more people turning to online dating every year, it's... Read More

Immigration and Clear Thinking

I get a lot of "reader comments" on the issues... Read More

Guys, Do Your Pickup Lines Always Get Met with Turn Downs?

It's unbelievable how many guys have this problem!I mean, you... Read More

5 Mistakes Men Make On The First Date

The number one mistake made by men on the first... Read More

When it Comes to Multicultural Dating The Most Important Ingredient is Love

Have you been only dating people from your own ethnic... Read More

It Pays For Single Christians To Date Other Like-Minded People

Searching for the perfect mate can be one of life's... Read More

Creating a Great Online Dating Profile

First impressions are important, which is why it is essential... Read More

How to Make Women Want You

You don't need a guitar, rock-hard abs, or even a... Read More

Gay Dating Tactics: Your First-Date Dos & Donts

IntroductionNothing gets the heart pumping quite like the nervous anticipation... Read More

How To Write Descriptions That Stand Out From The Crowd

Just about every dating site-even those with minimal profiles-have space... Read More

Using the Internet as a Method for Adult Dating

In this day and age, many find it hard to... Read More

Why Date Someone You Wouldnt Have As Your Friend?

Sometimes in dating we so often settle for people that... Read More

Public Displays of Affection: How to Fake It

You see it all the time, and it makes you... Read More

Dating Dilemma: The Man Who Said Hed Call and Didnt

You went out with the guy. You both had a... Read More

Love Could Be An Errand Away

You have signed up on several large dating sites and... Read More

Impress Your Date: Proper Grooming Tips For Him

So you have scored the date, she has agreed to... Read More

Seduction Secrets For Men Part 2 - Your Looks DO Matter

When it comes to the topic of looks with women,... Read More

Use This Rule To Survive A Loss

The intent of this article was to ease any trauma... Read More

Oops, I Did It Again

Oops! I did it again!So you are licking your wounds.... Read More

Online Dating: 4 Dating Mistakes You Must Avoid

Did you catch the dating mistakes made during episode one... Read More

Dos and Donts for Men on Dating Sites

Men, learn how to behave on dating and personals sites.Being... Read More

Lonely Expats Looking for Valentines Love

Being an expat in a foreign country where you don't... Read More

Is it Lust or Love -- How to Tell the Difference

Far too many people, both men and women alike, confuse... Read More

How To Have Sex On A First Date

Guys have all different motives for trying to be successful... Read More

Life isnt Sex and the City

A couple of weeks ago, I watched a Sex and... Read More

So, How Big is Your Penis?

As a result of dating for decades and chatting with... Read More

You Dont Have To Be A Genius To Write A Love Poem

Love poems are a wonderfully romantic gesture and can often... Read More

Internet Dating for Men

Over the past several years online dating has become very... Read More

Does the Free Basic Membership Find You A Date?

When it comes to online dating many people think that... Read More